Tip #7: Girls, NO Asking Boys Out!

The first rule of actual dating is that girls should NEVER ask boys out. This is a recipe for utter disaster.

Now, you'll hear a lot of dissent about this, mostly from men and feminists (who, in their own way, are practically men too). But let's think about this.

Girls, you want a guy you know cares about you and wants to be with you. True? True. And what surer way is there to know that the guy you're with cares about you, than to make him work for it?

This means:

1. NO asking him out.
2. NO talking to him first.
3. NO asking him to dance.
4. NO acting too interested.

It's true, as many guys will tell you, that many guys are nervous and afraid of being awkward. And they do appreciate the helpful hints that you like them. However, what does this really say about the guy?

I'm sorry, men. It says that you are wimpy and need to figure out how much you like this girl. If a man is THAT into a girl, nothing will stop him from doing anything he can to be with her, to figure her out. And ladies, that is the type of man you want. True fact. You want a man who will do anything to figure you out, because he cares that much.

So, please. Don't ask him out. Let him ask you out. This is the only way to know for sure that you're ending up with a guy who really cares about you.